Magnet For Love

Maybe you are still sleeping with your ex, you broke up, you thought it was over, then he reaches out and texts you, you agree to sleep with him for now. Or maybe you met a guy you liked, but he has told you "he just wants to have fun".  Can a friends with benefit situation turn into a great relationship? In short, the answer is "NO", and here's why? Because you give him all the benefits without the need to step up We sleep with men because we like them. At some point, when you were getting together with him you have implicitly agreed to have 'fun', and not enter into a committed relationship. He demonstrated to you that this was his intention either by his words or his actions, and by going along with him, you have agreed. Because you have already agreed the terms of your relationship to be a friend with benefits, then there is no motivation or incentive for him to step up and commit to a relationship you. Men looking for benefits don't want a relationship When he showed you at the beginning that he was